Surgery decision

Hey all,

Just found out about my fibroid and know I want it removed because of the pain it’s causing, but I’m basically having decision paralysis.
I can do either the myomectomy or the hysterectomy and both scare the crap out of me. I just turned 34 and I don’t believe kids are in my future, but a hysterectomy is so final and I’m so worried it’s going to change things. In myself, for my partner, etc. The myomectomy comes with more risks during surgery and would be a possible temporary fix.

Has anyone been here, having to decide between the two? What helped you make your final decision? And did you wish you did one over the other (did the myomectomy but wish you did the hysterectomy or vice versus)?

Any support is so appreciated. Thank you all❤️