Coming out pt.2?

Recently I made a post explaining that I came out to two of my closest male friends and that they took it really well. All is well and they accepted that I am gay. One of my friends said that he was happy I told him and he couldn’t care less if I am gay, basically what I do in the bedroom is my business. It slightly rubbed me the wrong way at the time but I thought nothing of it since i was happy that they took it well. However I did doubt if they actually accepted me being gay or if it was just “do what you want, just keep it to yourself”. I, wanting to think the best of people, brushed it off.

Yesterday however I was talking to that one friend and we came to talking about an upcoming trip of ours where we will be sharing a room and drinking a lot and he said to me that I am not allowed to bring a guy to the room. I thought it sounded a bit disrespectful and so I asked him: “could I bring a girl to the room” to which he then replied that a girl would indeed be fine. I said that i respect that he might be uncomfortable with me being gay since it was new for him and so I just brushed it off and said that neither of us were allowed to bring people to the room in that case.

We did not start an argument but now I’m feeling mixed emotions about this interaction. I don’t want to be a ‘loud’ gay guy but i also want to be able to talk about my love life with my friends. What should I do?

I am 19 and my friend is 18 btw.