How often do you have visits?

Additionally, on average, how long are visits and which of you is usually the one that travels and why? Just curious.

Me and my bf have visits once every 3 months (thanks to my student calendar and his flexibility at work) for at least a few days, but on average it’s probably about 1.5-2 weeks - the longest visit was an entire month during the summer (me visiting him).

It’s usually me that travels, mainly because we have more privacy, mutual friends, activities, and freedom to do stuff but also because I will ultimately be the one making the move and I think it’s important that I familiarise myself with the environment before that happens.