Regina and Daphne’s college

First time poster, long time lurker here. I’m on season 3 episode 14 where Daphne is talking about how expensive college/med school and Regina is really annoying/short sighted with this high horse she’s on about Daphne working for something if it’s worth it. It’s a nice sentiment, and a worthy lesson in the long run, but the idea that parents shouldn’t pay for a child’s college if they can? Odd to me. I find her insistence that Daphne come up with the money because she doesn’t want her to be “entitled” is crazy. You do this with something like a first car or a nice pair of shoes. Not higher education