Tired of of the word "Islamophobia"

I am really really tired of this word. Any critique to Islam is painted as Islamophobia.. and a lot of people will say "it's just bad people on either side".

How many people live in Afghanistan, what's the population? It's not 4-5 people being extreme. Nobody at scale is defending women's rights there. It's fucking (don't have a way of saying this politely) atrocious.

So is it the extremists (if so we are saying that the majority of the the Afghanistan countries population is extremist) or is it religion?

What's happening in Pakistan now too against women?

The investigation in UK for sex trafficking ring wasn't disclosed/properly dealt with to not incite "Islamophobia".

The activist in Sweden was killed for burning quran.

Where is the line and what can be done to change the conversation - as I am sick of this!

Note - I am an atheist, so for me the critique is against any and all religion but this one certainly takes the cake..

*Edited for clarity.