Is Initiating Conversations a Strength in Today’s Society?

I’ve noticed something lately: whether it’s with friends, acquaintances, or even family, I’m almost always the one initiating conversations. Even with my closest friends, who I know genuinely care about me, they rarely reach out first. But when they do, the conversation flows effortlessly, like no time has passed.

It makes me wonder if our society has become more closed off when it comes to casual conversation and connection? Has initiating become a skill rather than just a natural part of relationships? I don’t think it’s about disinterest, but maybe people are more in their worlds now, waiting for someone else to take the first step.

Is this a modern thing? Do you also feel like you have to be the initiator in your friendships, or do your friends reach out equally?