people taking things too far

ok am i the only one who thinks the jokes about tophia and brotherchu are a little too much? you know the ones where they are sexual. like i dont like tophia as much as the next guy and i know she has done terrible things but “joking” about her and her BROTHER and sometimes even her dad doing unspeakable things to each other is just plain weird?? like people will talk about how gross tophia is and then turn around and joke about stuff like that. ive said this on a tiktok comment section once and someone went against me like what i said was wrong.